Toilet Training

Toilet Training

For most children, daytime toilet training is achievable between 2-3 years of age. This is because your child should be physically and emotionally mature and able to understand what is happening.

How do I know my child is ready?

The nappy may stay dry for longer periods
Your child may indicate that they have done a wee or soiled the nappy
They may tell you what they have done
They may show signs of needing to wee or open his bowels

Guidance and helpful information

Choose pants and a potty together
Place it where it is readily available – There may be only a few seconds between realising they need it and using it
Use appropriate clothing – elasticated bottoms and pants are best
Encourage your child to drink plenty of fluids 120-150mls (6-8 cups) daily
When your child sits on the potty, praise and encourage them, be positive
Your child’s day care setting/nursery are always a useful source of support

More Information

How often should my child sit on the potty?

To begin with, try hourly and approximately 20 minutes after a meal. Don’t ask your child if they need to go, they will invariably say “no”! Use language such as “It’s time to sit on the potty”.

What if my child does not show signs of being ready by 3 years?

Try initially, if no progress is seen after several days, stop and contact your Healthy Family Hub team for advice.

What if my child is constipated or refuses to ‘poo’ on the potty/toilet?

Encourage plenty of fluids and a variety of high fibre foods. Some children have a fear of pooing – you can help by trying some of these ideas;

Lining the potty with a nappy
Scrunching toilet paper into the bowl
Distract with singing, activities, books etc
Songs like ‘Row, row, row your boat’ and blowing bubbles may also help to distract and relax their muscles
Download the ‘Poo Goes Home to Pooland’ app

How do I manage potty training when out and about?

Take a change of clothes with you. Take the potty with you, locate nearby toilets and have regular ‘toilet runs’. You can also purchase a portable potty, which you may find useful.